Losing Someone But Finding Yourself

Every journey is not all about finding love. It is sometimes about finding yourself.

Every fairytale always ended up with a happily ever after. Why isn't ending with sadness and heartbreaks? Is this means that my life will be wholesome and useful only when I find this magical love?

Is searching love a purpose in every journey?

In finding love and meeting the person you want, will turn your life upside down and allows you to feel a deeper emotions. That person you'll want to spend the rest of your life with. The one who complete the missing pieces in you.

You are confused right now. There are so much love within you and you want to share it with someone else. But no one is ready to take it yet. You think that everyone else should have a special someone. Perhaps, you wonder why you are struggling of finding your real soulmate. These situation is making you feel worthless and even empty.

You don't need someone to complete you!

What if this is not the right time for you to find love yet? What if you need to search yourself first?

Think about that maybe what you need right now is to get involved with yourself fully. Allow yourself to spend quality time with your own company. Maybe you need to explore the world alone and embrace the true nature of being you.

Finding love has nothing to do with you!

This is all about you. Losing yourself is a way of finding yourself.

You are given an amazing opportunity to start living a life the way you wanted. Saying "YES"  to an adventures is a little way for you to explore the world all by yourself. Making a few wrong decisions in life is okay because you only have yourself and that you don't have to worries that you are hurting anyone. Find peace and happiness within yourself. Learn to live alone without feeling lonely.

This journey is about finding your true you!

It doesn't mean that you will no longer finding love. Just think that maybe this is not the right time, maybe this life is still preparing you to a greater journey that you truly deserve or maybe the love you want is only waiting for you to grow and see through some important lessons in life until you are ready to commit fully.

This life is challenging you. All you have to do is to go through it all to become a better version of you. And once you are ready, you will embrace every challenges that coming your way. You have to know that you aren't born with sole purpose to be with someone else other half. You are not a half, you are whole you. Maybe this journey being alone is only reminding you on how to love yourself first.

Self-love is essential on becoming a better version of you!

Learn to be happy alone instead of comparing yourself to someone else who is having a fairytale-like love stories. Invest your strength into doing the things that giving you joy. Keep some of that love for yourself that you wanting to give to someone else.

We all dreaming for that wonderful life and living with the person we dearly want, where love is the only answer for our longings. But the truth is, all the questions that we are asking are already within us. We just need to find ourselves first.