Overcoming Hidden Battles

Everyone is fighting battles alone and carries well, but that doesn't mean it's easy.

Whether we like it or not this life is not easy. Everyone has carrying own struggles. Some are having difficult time to let go of their burdens from the past. There are lessons that teaches us on how to value our life even more. Pain is letting us know who we can give our trust and to whose existence we have to keep away from.

All of us are keeping sadness on our own. Fighting battles everyday that others cannot tell. That's why we have to learn to be kind in every step of the way and to be sensitive at all times because we don't know what other people is going through with their lives. Isn't it easier to give support and encouragement instead of comparing your progress and mocking others?

Truth is, people are tend to be judgemental in this cruel world that we are living in. Considering the younger generation, it is our duties on teaching them how to be more compassionate and being gentle. Because even the most strong independent person also have struggles and fighting secret battles alone that no one knows. In fact, these people suffered helplessly the most because they are always alone with their journey, may it be failure or success.

Sad to know that we feel guilty because we choose to cut off ties and stop supporting others just because we feel that they are toxic, when all they need is someone to be with them, listening without judging them. When all they want is a simple comfort just to let them feel that they are not alone with their pains. The fact is, we avoid them because we feel that they are passing their burdens unto us. We distance ourselves from them while we can actually help them overcome their battles and rooting them as they help themselves growing to become a more better person.

As they say, "No one else can completely understand what others going through, until you can experience it with yourself". In the end we all realize that our pain is not meaningless. We need to accept and understand that all of us has our own different kinds of struggles and pains but we're carrying it differently. No matter how hard we fight and overcome, we cannot deny that we need to go through these all because it has a reason and a purpose. "Sometimes, we need to lose something to understand the real value".

Despite all, we still have to be grateful with this devastating moments of our lives because they're making us more stronger and teaching us important lessons. All we need is a heart whose willing to accept and a mind who always understands. "This too shall pass!"